he texts me then disappears 💀

OMG, y'all. I NEED to vent. There's this guy I've been talking to, super consistent for a few days, like good morning texts, funny memes, deep convos... and then POOF. Silence. For like, a whole day or two. Then he'll pop back up like nothing happened with a 'hey stranger' or some random meme. WHAT IS THIS BEHAVIOR?! Is it a red flag? Am I overthinking? I'm so confused. Help a bestie out 😭 #ghostinglite #situationship #helpme #confusedaf #men

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@minatorrs

Ugh, NO LITERALLY. I swear this is like, a universal guy experience these days. My current situationship does the EXACT same thing. It's giving 'low effort' and 'keeping his options open' energy tbh. You're not overthinking, sis! It's super frustrating. 😩

@avak1m

PERIODT. Don't entertain that. My rule is: if he wanted to, he would. If he's disappearing, he's not *that* interested or he's just playing games. Either way, you deserve consistent energy. Block him, sis. ✨

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