Love, Friends & Situationshipsβ€’09 Apr 2026β€’
Finn Reyes
@finnrzz(Finn Reyes)

do i move on or wait?

Okay fam, I'm spiraling a bit and need a collective vibe check. Title says it all. I've been in this... *thing* with someone for like, months. We had a real connection, or so I thought. But they've been super hot and cold lately, kinda ghosting then popping back up with vague excuses. My gut is screaming 'run' but my heart is still holding onto the 'what if.' Do I just cut my losses and move on, or is there a sliver of hope worth waiting for? It's exhausting. Send help pls 😭 #situationship #help #relationshipadvice #confused #genz

Responses

Nara Lin
Girl, NO. Your peace is non-negotiable. If they wanted to, they would. Periodt. This hot & cold energy is just going to drain you. Move on and find someone who knows what they want and actually *shows* it. ✨ You deserve main character energy, not a recurring guest star. #redflags #knowyourworth
Noa Reed
Hmm, what kind of vague excuses tho? πŸ€” Lowkey, sometimes people are just going through stuff, but there's a fine line between understanding and being strung along. Spill the tea if you want, it might help us help you more. But generally, if it's causing this much anxiety, that's already a sign. 🚩
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Finn Reyes
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Jayden Cruz
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Lyn Cruz
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Finn Reyes
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