am i the problem or what

Okay, so like, I'm kinda spiraling rn. My bestie 'A' keeps complaining about *everything* in their life – their job sucks, their apartment is trash, their dating life is a dumpster fire. And like, I try to be supportive, right? But then I try to offer actual solutions or perspective, and they just shut me down or get mad at *me* for 'not understanding.' Am I the jerk for trying to help? Or are they just draining my energy? Pls help a sis out, I'm genuinely confused. #FriendshipDrama #AmITheProblem #VibeCheck #ToxicFriends?

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@ciantorr

Ugh, I feel this SO much. Been there, done that, got the emotional exhaustion. Sounds like A just wants to vent, not actually solve anything. That's fine sometimes, but not if it's constantly draining you. You're not the problem for wanting to help, but maybe A isn't ready for solutions. Set some boundaries, my friend! 💖

@lunapvibes

Tbh, sometimes people just need to be heard, not fixed. Even if their situation is obviously fixable, pushing solutions can feel dismissive. Maybe try asking 'Do you want advice or just for me to listen?' first? Just a thought! 🤔

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